Fell in love with the eyes, heart palpitations, and shy kisses in the introductory phase and the beginning of a relationship there is nothing more Exciting, than the Person, and You learn every day to better know and can barely keep their hands off each other…
Everything would be perfect, were it not for the Problem of habit. After a certain time of exciting fun and the strong attraction that was initially hardly suppress a lie. Many couples anticipate the end of their relationship – but this need not be, if one is willing to work on it.
There are all sorts of ways to bring new momentum in the relationship, and to inflame the feelings of new. As long as both partners are willing to change something, the creativity is no limit.
1. Flirt like on the first day
The characteristic the learning phase has a goal: To convince the Opposite in the you flirts, flatters, and occasionally naughty. This love and fun behavior holds in the first time of the relationship, because you want to show his Partner his feelings.
If the relationship is to remain fresh and interesting, you should try to flirt more, and to put the love into words. It is not nice, if the Partner is laughing, or intimately a sincere compliment happy? This also makes the self very happy.
It doesn’t have to einFlirt always or flattery – you can also try to annoy each other and tease and to ensure more fun with each other. As long as both perceive it as a positive feeling, it will be good for the relationship. Here it is, possibly, carefully the line between fun and Serious testing.
2. Naked sleep
The sun is shining and the temperature rises on the Thermometer – the summer is coming, and thus the hot nights in the bedroom. Thus, it is not for couples to warm, there is a solution that provides both for cooling as well as a fresh Kick in the relationship, sleeping naked.
The first step is worth it: The Partner will be surprised, but at the same time, the sexual attraction felt. So, it uses the warm temperatures optimally in order to provide spontaneous and tender skin touch for more intimacy.
3. Common goals
Stressful work days, household tasks and important dates – we handle all mostly live in the here and now, to everyday life. You forget how important it is to set personal goals to lose the Motivation. In a relationship, it is similar: With individual objectives, but also the anticipation comes to the future together again.
Whether a shared apartment, a holiday or just a romantic Date – there is no need for endless list of Deadlines for tens of projects are defined. This pressure influenced the relationship is rather negative result. Instead, the goals should provide for positive feelings and anticipation.
You can create, for example, by talking more frequently about it or pictures hanging from the last vacation, or of the future dream house, or by carrying other every once in a while a sweet Date-invitations.
4. Together to experience something New
Many couples do not share the Hobbies of the other, but this is not bad and also not absolutely necessary. Instead, it offers the opportunity to discover together new activities and to learn to love.
Whether it’s climbing Park, go-kart tracks, or in-line skating Tour in the Green – for sports enthusiasts, couples, there are all sorts of opportunities for shared interests to find. But also cooking classes, and Board game evenings can quickly become a common Hobby, and for more fun in the relationship to worry about.
But: don’t like an activity, it has develop into an obligation so that the Partner is happy. Open talk helps – in a relationship communication is the A and O.
Who gives rooms on the other side, once free, has to tell even more and the desire to discover common interests.
5. Weekly Dates
One thinks of the perfect love story, instead of find romantic Dates, until one comes at last – the reality is unfortunately different. For many couples, the previous Dates have been, often, hardly, quite differently, or not at all, they are for the learning phase and togetherness is particularly important.
Also available in a solid and long partnership Dates can bring a new momentum in the relationship. For this, it helps to have a fixed day in the week schedule, on the togetherness and the fun are in the foreground. To the ringing phone or other distractions should be avoided during the Couple of premium time as much as possible.
It must be an expensive Restaurant or adventure: the relationship to refresh, also reaches a common series or evening of cooking completely. Especially in the summer, a novel offers a romantic picnic under the stars.
6. Time for yourself
As you set out refreshed and happy relationship now, but only with togetherness and intimacy in a connection, makes a mistake. Finally, not only the relationship to grow in the future, but also your own personality. Therefore, it is at least as important, time for yourself schedule.
Whether a relaxing bath or a trip you are not alone – time for yourself, in the aware with the Partner is important. So thoughts, to sort, to process, and you can grow in yourself. Also in terms of partnership, you can use this time to become aware of new ideas which keep the relationship fresh and sexy.
Michelle Steinmetz
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